So the title of this post, does inspired from what Jeremy Clarkson always said when he is faced with some silly, but tough challenges. Basically just some question he throw around, before he goof things up.
The subject though, isn't. A while ago me and the HR team were having lunch. As the youngest member of the team, is customary of me answering some question about marriages. Because in their eyes, they see me as someone who doesn't interested in it at all.
Which is probably true.
I tend to over think of something, lots of analyzing stuff, which sometimes drives people mad. One of the other young member of HR, obviously older than me, were barracked around with same question as well.
"What kind of woman you guys want?"
Strangely, me and him have almost same answer. We all want a non complicated woman, not a whiny one, and we both doesn't want a marriage party. We'd rather spend the money on a house or something.
The feedback that we received were, supportive really. From peoples experiences, things will get much more complicated after you got married. Which is why we are looking for a non complicated woman.
To all the gentlemans everywhere, imagine your girlfriend now, soon to be your wife.
Imagine if they nag you of small things. Forgetting a call, talking to other woman, playing video games, hanging out with your mates, not coming on the weekend because you work 800 km away and etc.
Imagine they get upset on all this.
Now imagine what will happen after marriages. Things will be much more complicated, they will demand MORE, and your life has just been screwed.
I do realise that a non complicated, no fuss woman is almost, to some degree, non existence. But for the sake of it, please just pick someone who is less complicated. Who doesn't get into your nerves every so often.
But the question now is,
What if, you yourself is a complicated men?
Like me?
Hmmm....
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